Monday, July 07, 2008

HE'S MY "BF"(When your best friend turns out to be you dream boy friend)

Have you ever experienced falling in love to someone you consider your closest friend without him knowing it? It's not that easy, right? Especially if the two of you are always seeing each other. But what could be more complicated if it's your best friend whom you are in love with?

Being together everyday, sharing fun memories and laughing your hearts out, it's very fun to be with your best bud. He's very caring and thoughtful. And you really have great times whenever you're with him. He's like your ideal guy, your best friend, and a kuya too. But, then suddenly, just when he opened the door for you or asked to carry your things, your felt your heart beating so fast. You weren't aware, but it seems like you've fallen for your best friend.

For all those times you two were together, he has been so nice to you. If it's not because of the fact that you are best buddies, he might be mistaken as your boyfriend. It feels so right. Yet, it's also uncomfortable.

Since the day you felt different for him, things have also changed. You tend to give meaning to everything he does for you. And at the same time, you also feel disappointed if something not good happens, like seeing him with his other friends. You start to get jealous. But you also aren't like before, when you two run after and tickle each other. Why? Because you've been watching your movements when he's around. You somehow becomes shy. You tend to be different from the best friend that he used to have.

Being in this kind of situation would really give you headache--or worst, a heartache. You are clueless of what could happen if knew about it. There will only be two possible endings: your best friend feeling the same way too or a friendship under pretensions.